Pilinski On How To Get Laid – Fast
One of my favorite men’s dating and attraction gurus is Michael Pilinski. He is the author of an excellent title that you can find out more about on my Without Embarrassment review page.
Mike Pilinski is different from run of the mill dating guru’s in a couple of ways. One of them is that he is utterly matter-of-fact about what it is that he needs from a woman, and if it is to get laid, he will say so. Moreover, he is very frank in his discussions of how you too can get laid – fast! If this is the kind of thing you need to know about, then Mike has plenty to tell you about how to get the job done.
After you have got through reading his book, not only will you understand exactly what you need to do to get sex on the first date, but you will have to think about whether you want to employ that power to get what you want immediately, every time you date a new woman – because once you have switched on that sexual torrent in a woman, she will be expecting something from you on every subsequent date. You may have to work hard to outdo yourself!
The truth of the matter for most guys, of course, is that they would be more than lucky to eventually have sex with even one out of every four women they take out on a date. Even then, the time it takes to lead up to the event could be weeks or even months. Most men just have no idea HOW to go about engineering the situation so that sex on the first date is not only a natural outcome to the night, but something that the woman will be thinking about long before you get her to her front door.
Michael Pilinski recognizes this essential fact of dating for guys because he was once in their shoes. He remembers the frustration and anxiety that goes hand in hand with the primary aim of trying to get laid fast but knowing that you just do not have the temerity to follow it through with the kind of action needed to make your date want to throw caution to the wind and jump right into your bed along with you.
What you need to get laid, he says, is a four part plan. His plan. Briefly, it consists of the following parts:
[1] If you are set to go on a date with her then you are already to second base. Otherwise you need to do whatever it takes to get her attention and make it known that you and she ought to be spending some time together. Once you are with her, the rest becomes simply a matter of reading from the Pilinski play book. So make eye contact, engage her, and seek out a way to bring her into your world as fast as you can. First impressions are important, and Michael will give you a lot of advice about how to steer her thinking your way.
[2] Learn how to act on the slightest suggestion from her that she may be interested in you as a potential partner. You might not get a second chance with her, so use what Michael has to tell you about reading a woman from the way she behaves and the things that she says when she is around you. Recognize your opportunities when they present themselves, and exploit whatever interest she shows in you.
[3] Get a commitment from her for a time and place where you both can meet up and do something together. It need not even be a date – any excuse to spend time together is going to sway the odds in your favor that a sexual union will eventually take place – and soon, if you follow the tips that Michael offers in his book. The biggest mistake guys make is not being ready for the opportunities that a woman will put out there automatically whenever she meets a man for the first time.
[4] Be the man who knows exactly what he wants and how to get it. This is important. No guy gets sex from a girl because she decides to simply throw herself at you (well, few men). It is a delicate dance of seduction that the successful man partakes in willfully and knowledgeably. There are no accidents when it comes to managing sex on your first date. You must know how to play the game if you are to win at it, and do it every time you play again. In short, it is a science, and one that can be learned if you follow someone who has worked out the rules of attraction for you.
If you need the exact details on the tactics outlined briefly here, check out this how to get laid article from Michael Pilinski. You can also find reviews of other top rated dating books for men on the same site.
