Discover Important Info About Being Too Emotional
Do you know what it means when your boyfriend
gets quiet, “zones out” and acts like he doesn’t
want to talk to you?
One minute everything feels great and you’re
laughing and connecting and the next minute some
weird “mood” comes over him and he goes off into
his own little world.
Or maybe your relationship is chugging along at
full speed, getting closer and closer, and
suddenly you feel like YOU are the only one
reaching out and connecting…and he is just
sitting there?
What’s up with that?
Why do men do this?
If this has ever happened to you, I want you to
know that it’s critical for you to know WHY – and
what to do about it (and what to AVOID doing at
all costs).
PAY ATTENTION: Because this is important:
How you react in a situation like this can mean
the difference between him KNOWING the one woman
who can make him happy, or feeling unsure about
the future of your relationship.
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Many women believe that when a man acts
“disengaged” it is because he’s not happy, or
he’s unsatisfied, or he doesn’t want to be with
you and wants to be with someone else.
NOT SO!
As a matter of fact, thinking that there’s
something wrong with the relationship when a man
gets quiet is one of what I call the “Man Myths”
that a lot of women believe about men.
The way your boyfriend is behaving is TYPICAL
and to be expected of a man in a relationship.
It doesn’t mean something is WRONG…for example:
Has your guy ever done this?
– Made plans to spend a night alone with “the
guys” after several intense and romantic days
with you
– Go and “zone out” in front of the T.V. or
computer after dinner or after a long conversation
with you, and acts irritated when you try to
interrupt him
– Spend huge chunks of time on weekends
tinkering around the garage or working on his
hobby and not engaged or interested in spending
time with you
I’d bet that he’s done this more than once…
and when he does, what do YOU think about what’s
going through his mind?
Do you start wondering if he’s angry about
something you did or said, or is somehow
DISAPPROVING of you in some way?
Do you wonder if he cares LESS about you in
that moment, or is questioning your relationship?
Do you start to talk yourself into feeling,
“ok, well he’s into his own thing, so I’m going
to go off and be into mine.”
Or do you think, “well I need to fill my time
with other interests since he is OBVIOUSLY not
interested in spending his precious time with me.”
If you find yourself thinking any of these
things, chances are pretty good that you’re
reacting to him in a way that sends a very
negative message – a message that is GUARANTEED to
send him packing or push him away from you.
That’s because you’re reacting to a MYTH that
you heard somewhere about men – that men really
don’t care about spending quality, intimate time
with women.
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